Thursday, January 27, 2011

黎导师,安息吧

  本月初从美英处得知黎斯华总导师病危,当时为她祈祷,希望她能战胜病魔,度过难关。

  17日早上,收到合玲传来的简讯,惊闻黎导师已经于16日晚上逝世,心中戚然。

  23日下午,前往学会新会所吊唁,望着黎导师肖像,默然悼念。


  之后,读了一篇黎导师的文章,那是她在“超越死亡——生命教育讲座”的演讲,题目为“生命要有信念”。

  文中黎导师提到的一些历史人物,如南宋岳飞、文天祥、明代杨继盛、袁崇焕、清代林则徐、谭嗣同、林觉民等人,都曾经听黎导师在课堂上讲述过,深深感受到中国传统读书人的崇高人格,“原来人是可以这样的”。

  黎导师投入法住生命教育事业已经超过二十年了,堪称鞠躬尽瘁,死而后已!黎导师的生命,体现出她对信念的坚持。

  黎导师,安息吧!


2011年2月4日更新
附上霍师、袁尚华等几篇悼念文章的链接:

  霍韬晦《君子所尊,小人所畏──悼念绮华
  袁尚华《赤胆忠肝柔情侠骨——黎绮华女士生平
  梁芷媚《自留清气满乾坤——追忆黎绮华博士

文章中收录几幅挽联,特此列出:

  霍韬晦教授挽联:
  二十年跃马横戈 恨世间无道 赤胆忠肝 火里来 风里去
  三千里跨洋越海 为天运复明 柔情侠骨 终犹始 死犹生

  袁尚华博士挽联:
  (之一)
  亦妻亦友 同道同心 竟成幻梦
  相勉相濡 互惜互重 何堪断弦

  (之二)
  终归别 终归别 终归天上共命永无别
  毕竟空 毕竟空 毕竟人间真情何可空

  (之三)
  热泪歌忠良 横眉看世界 早忘性命
  丹心化日月 清气留乾坤 先往逍遥

  香港喜耀教育文化基金挽联:
  承古通今 光大師門成典範
  頂天立地 自留清氣滿乾坤

2011年3月30日更新
附上美萍悼念黎导师的文章链接:

  黄美萍《怀念黎斯华导师,感恩黎斯华导师

(2011年4月1日更新)
附上陈可勇悼念黎导师的文章链接:

  陈可勇《我们一定会重逢的──悼侠女黎绮华博士

Friday, December 31, 2010

2010年回顾

  2010年,我在创新的工作又起变化:我再次转到另一个商业单位,负责创新品牌的安卓平板产品(Android Tablet);还有从德星手中接管软件工程部门(德星在今天退休了)。

  除了这些变化以外,我还在继续管理创新合肥分公司,几乎每个月都飞去合肥。我开始启动合肥本地化管理的步骤,成立管理委员会,赋予本地主管的财务权限,还成立了管理学习组。这一年来,我和合肥主管共同研读了一些管理学书籍,包括德鲁克(Peter Drucker)的经典《管理的实践》(The Practice of Management)和《卓有成效的管理者》(The Effective Executive),还分享了易经管理学之乾坤二卦,大家都觉得很有启发,获益匪浅。

  回到自己的圣经学习,原本打算在忙碌工作之余,能够对圣经中个别课题做较系统化的阅读,却没有实现,只是在进行跳跃式的阅读,和坚持在国内的每个星期日去教会听牧师讲道。

  2010年又多了一个朋友的博客:国伟的http://gankokwee.blogspot.com/,虽然目前只有3篇博文,但每一篇都是有内涵、有深度的文章,不容错过。

  2010年来到了尾声,今晚将和家人一起到教会朋友家聚会,在食物与游戏、赞美与敬拜中,我们将倒数迎接新的一年的来临!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

铅笔和橡皮擦

  收到Wing Kin用电邮传来的一篇短文,讲述的是一段铅笔和橡皮擦的对话,带出父母对子女那种无私的爱。作者为此感叹,惊觉父母日渐衰老,最终留下的只是一些回忆,因而以此文向所有父母致敬。

Pencil: I’m sorry.

Eraser: For what? You didn’t do anything wrong.

Pencil: I’m sorry because you get hurt because of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you’re always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.

Eraser: That’s true. But I don’t really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I’ll be gone and you’ll replace me with a new one, I’m actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad.

I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They’re always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way, they get hurt, and become smaller / older, and eventually pass on. Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

All my life, I’ve been the pencil. And it pains me to see the eraser that is my parents getting smaller and smaller each day. For I know that one day, all that I’m left with would be eraser shavings and memories of what I used to have.

This is to all the parents out there.

  最近报章上好一些关于孝顺的讨论,这篇短文正好给予一些提醒。

  父母的关爱子女和子女的孝顺父母,本来是一种发自内心、自然纯粹的亲情的展现,又何须立法规定呢?小时候读过乌鸦反哺的故事,乌鸦尚且懂得反哺,更何况是号称万物之灵的人呢?

  制定奉养父母的法规,只能视之为处理现实情况的权宜之计。真正的解决方案,还是要从根本着手,回到人格教育的推行。

Saturday, October 30, 2010

一双完美的腿

10月31日更新:昨日《联合早报•言论》刊登了一篇关于刘伟的文章,文章标题采用了刘伟在初赛时说的话《要么赶紧死,要么精彩地活》)

  我在《人生中的两条路》一文介绍了“无臂钢琴师”刘伟参加《中国达人秀》初赛和半决赛的片段,博文的结语表示期待他在10月10日总决赛的表现。

  总决赛总共有八强进入,刘伟是最后登场的选手。以一段优美的钢琴曲《来自神秘园的歌》(Song From A Secret Garden)搭配一首流行劲歌《You’re Beautiful》,刘伟融合了两种不同的曲风,展示了他的音乐才华,赢得了评委和观众的赞叹,一举摘取了《中国达人秀》桂冠。

  《中国达人秀》的标语是“相信梦想、相信奇迹”。在总决赛的舞台上,刘伟说:“至少我还有一双完美的腿”。就凭这双完美的腿,刘伟实现了梦想,创造了奇迹。

中国达人秀》2010年10月10日刘伟总决赛片段:
http://www.qiyi.com/zongyi/20101011/n84440.html


《来自神秘园的歌》原曲欣赏:
http://www.woim.net/song/151/song-from-a-secret-garden.html


(附上《You’re Beautiful》歌词)

  歌曲:You’re Beautiful
  歌手:James Blunt

  歌词:

  My life is brilliant.
  My love is pure.
  I saw an angel.
  Of that I'm sure.
  She smiled at me on the subway.
  She was with another man.
  But I won't lose no sleep on that,
  'Cause I've got a plan.

  You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
  You're beautiful, it's true.
  I saw your face in a crowded place,
  And I don't know what to do,
  'Cause I'll never be with you.

  Yeah, she caught my eye,
  As we walked on by.
  She could see from my face that I was,
  Flying high,
  And I don't think that I'll see her again,
  But we shared a moment that will last till the end.

  You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
  You're beautiful, it's true.
  I saw your face in a crowded place,
  And I don't know what to do,
  'Cause I'll never be with you.

  You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
  You're beautiful, it's true.
  There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
  When she thought up that I should be with you.
  But it's time to face the truth,
  I will never be with you.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

杰出领袖七大原则

  今天《联合早报》和《海峡时报》分别以中文和英文刊登宝马7系列豪华轿车广告,列出杰出领袖七大原则(The 7 Principles of Leadership):

杰出领袖七大原则
放眼世界领袖何其多;出类拔萃者,差异何在?
雄才大略的真领袖,谨守一套领导原则;事业点石成金,成就屡攀高峰。行事立业潇洒自如。见识判断精准正确。待人接物和颜悦色。他的喜悦之心自然流露;时时欣慰,事事感激。如此领袖情操,所到之处,众人心悦诚服;自古以来,英雄相识更相重。宝马7系列豪华轿车情怀亦然。

THE 7 PRINCIPLES OF LEADERSHIP
THERE ARE LEADERS, AND THERE ARE LEADERS. WHAT SETS YOU APART?
True leaders have a set of principles that takes them from success to success. A way of doing. A way of seeing. A way of being. Rarer still is the sense of joy they bring to everything they do. Others may not understand these values. That’s why it takes one to know one. The BMW 7 Series.

宝马7系列豪华轿车。深切体会领袖成功原则,不断激发领导灵感。
The BMW 7 Series. Inspired by the core principles that take leaders from success to success.

一、 不言妥协、不言踌躇 — 敢于树立目标、勇于超越表现
ACCEPT NO COMPROMISE - Set exacting standards, then exceed them.

二、 敢凭直觉、捷足先登 — 您的果断决定、成为直觉延伸
FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS – Make decisions an extension of your instinct.

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DARE TO INNOVATE – Pioneer technologies that make change happen.

四、 洞察大局、了解大势 — 阵前秣马厉兵、幕后运筹帷幄
FOCUS ON THE BIG PICTURE – Know when to take the back seat.

五、 调兵遣将、无攻不克 — 选用精英团队、不忘重要细节
ASSEMBLE THE STRONGEST TEAM – Delegate the details to a handpicked team.

六、 尊贵特权、珍惜享受 — 掌握应得权益、享受体贴优惠
EXERCISE YOUR PRIVILEGES – Enjoy the privileges that come with the position.

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WIELD POWER RESPONSIBLY – Make leadership a sustainable venture.

  广告内容,当然是在宣传宝马7系列豪华轿车和杰出领袖的相得益彰,足以成为后者的首选轿车。撇开宣传意味,这杰出领袖七大原则,还是可以作为参考的。